Hymns and songs appropriate for infant and child funerals

Development of New Hymns and songs

Paediatric Chaplains have discovered that there was a limited selection of hymns and songs that were appropriate for infant and child funerals. Chaplains in the network have written their own to ensure families are comforted pastorally with appropriate and sensitive lyrics. Others have been adapted from exisiting hymns. We would appreciate if you would acknowledge the author’s name.

A copy of the booklet “New Resources for Children’s Funerals and Memorials is available from Red Balloon Resources, rbr@bch.nhs.uk and costs £5.00 +p&P.  a selaction of these resources are found below.

The best known, ‘Fleetingly known, yet ever remembered’   is likely to be more appropriate for younger children or babies.  Often ‘bright hymns’ such as ‘Morning has broken’ and ‘All things bright and beautiful’ are chosen by families, or traditional children’s songs such as ‘Jesus wants me for a sunbeam’ and ‘When a knight won his spurs’.  Sometimes an existing hymn or song might have additional verses written when words specific to the occasion are added to words that are already familiar. John Bell has written two hymns specifically for such occasions and members of the Paediatric Chaplaincy Network have written a series of new hymns. These hymns seek to address directly some of the difficult thoughts and feelings around the loss of a child, however short or long their lives may have been. More titles will soon be added to the present list.

Already Known and In General Use

  1. All Things Bright and Beautiful
  2. Morning Has Broken
  3. Lord of All Hopefulness
  4. The Lord’s My Shepherd
  5. Make Me a Channel of Your Peace
  6. Away in a Manger
  7. I Watch the Sunrise
  8. Kum-bah-yah
  9. The Lord of the Dance
  10. When a Knight Won His Spurs
  11. Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam
  12. Fleetingly Known Yet Ever Remembered

 Already Written Specially For Such Occasions

  1. We cannot care for you the way we wanted                    John Bell

(Church Hymnary – 4th Edition – Canterbury Press 2005 – Copyright 2006)

  1. There is a place for little children                                                John Bell

(Church Hymnary – 4th Edition – Canterbury Press 2005 – Copyright 2006)

This was written following the Dunblane Massacre, but it is generally usable)

 

Christ be beside me – words adapted and written Alister Bull  2009 (Tune: Bunessan)

God’s Eternity (In this very different Life)  © Pamela Turner 2011  (Tune: All things bright and beautiful)

Jesus, Friend Of Little Children – Nick Ball  2011 (Tune: Quem Pastores )

Lord, for the years, your love has kept and guided – Words adapted Alister Bull and Martin Kelly 2012 (Tune:Lord for the years)

Lord We Come To You Rememb’ring – Nick Ball  2011 (Tune: Stuttgart)

Memories Sad And Beautiful – Paul Nash 2011  (Tune: All things Bright and Beautiful)

Tell out, my soul, my heart cries out to you! – Written and adapted Alister Bull and Martin Kelly 2012 (Tune: Woodlands)

  Thank you for the gifts we treasure  – Dorothy Moore Brooks 2011 (Tune: Praise My Soul the King of Heaven)